Unfortunately, sisters, many women aren’t aware of how to stop sabotaging love and success. Or better yet, many are not even aware they are doing it. How do I know this? I’ve been there myself and I finally learned a better way.
How else do I know?
It’s been secretly uncovered and bought to light during coaching sessions with my ever-growing community of women who choose to evolve — yes, working with women as their empowerment coach so they can catapult their purpose or business into the world or… find the One. The one man who cherishes her from head to toe. Oftentimes, we do both. Yes, these sessions are deeply revealing, utterly transforming, sooo delicious!
What about you? Do you feel the burning need for a closer look so you too can stop sabotaging love and success? To get the man, keep the man or launch that fabulous idea for others to reap your awesome gifts? Let me share with you a couple of big ahas and clues that are often invisible but will allow you to a transformation and eliminate any more sabotage.
- This is hugely valuable to you if you are:
- Desiring to meet your soulmate or meet available, quality men to date regardless of attempts or “trying” and you are now feeling invisible.
- Wanting to uplevel your career, excel in your business or do something more purposeful and rewarding in the world but wondering why you are stuck and feeling like you don’t really have what it takes.
“I know I’m a bitch, but how does she know?” Debbie Ford said this at one of her seminars about dealing with your shadow self. This was many years ago but when I heard her speak about it, it really caught my attention and brought to light a personal revelation.
When you are living, acting, or being incongruent with what you say you want, what you dream about, what you desire — it does not go unnoticed and you end up self-sabotaging.
When I realized I was acting incongruent, I immediately had to understand how to stop sabotaging love and success in my own life. I was so tired of failure, spinning my wheels and getting only the mediocre results of my secret longings. I want this for you too. Keep reading for some examples of self-sabotaging behavior that you can take a closer look at to see if these behaviors are coming between you and your higher potentials in love or purpose or success.
At all times and including right now, the Universe sees you and responds to you in like —whether it’s what you want or not. And so do others. Not necessarily all people, however, many are unconsciously doing the same. Thus, they are in your field of attraction.
Being incongruent is not necessarily intentional or conscious. But secretly, yes, you know. When you are alone and have your guard down — you are glaring at your reality.
Examples of this look like:
> You long for him to call or text you but you don’t even get back to those who have or whom you promised to or ought to out of courtesy.
> You say you want to receive his love but you privately (or even outwardly) talk down to yourself as if you are unworthy of love
> You take a small step to find out about a career move but when someone calls or emails you back to share some info or ask how they can help — you go dark, don’t respond and pretend you never knew they contacted you.
> You want to make a difference in the world, to be celebrated and admired for your gifts and contribution but you hide behind others, refrain from sharing your thoughts or views and continually talk yourself out of stepping into your dream.
> You complain about money and say you want to earn more, to get a pay raise or confidently ask more for your products and services but you absolutely refuse to invest in yourself or pay for more education or mentorship.
> You raise your hand to high-five and rah, rah with the women’s rising movement but you keep your fears boxed in and refuse to let them go.
Can you relate?
Ah, I know it can feel painful but think of it as empowering instead. When we know better, we do better.
Your reality is always right in front of you to see, to learn and to grow. That’s the truth. You are not alone. We all have a similar journey.
It’s what you do from this point forward the counts.
The self-work, the letting go of hurting yourself, to stop sabotaging love and success, and holding yourself hostage is the pathway to a transformational journey. Is the gateway of your feminine power in its full glory, to unleashing the fully-expressed woman who’s been hiding for too long and now ready to shine, receive, breathe and love …. finally and always. From this pace, the rest falls into place so much easier.
How do I know? Been there too.
Self-awareness is HUGE. It’s the biggest not secret, secret. It’s not rocket science but is the invisible truth and path to stop sabotaging love and success. You really do deserve better. When you know better, you do better.
Teresa Salhi – Love and Success Coach & Hemp Goddess
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