We don’t mean to – but sometimes as women we mistakes with men that can be devastating.
We forget how to be the woman he adores.
Mistakes we make with men can be avoided.
A woman who is not partnering with her mate from her feminine state of being often makes one or more of the below 5 mistakes. A modern day woman is not a weak woman, she knows how to a powerful leader in the right circumstances ( such as at work or in her business), she is also a woman who knows how to create romantic polarity with a partner and when to engage more of her feminine side so he can engage more of his masculine. She knows the difference. Knowing the difference can make or break a relationship.
Mistake #1 – She does not appreciate his masculinity.
Men have many gifts to give the world. They protect, they lead with direction, they focus on what they are doing and work hard, they fix things, they bring adventure to our lives, they make us feel feminine. Unfortunately, many women often think men should be more like them and do not honor their “masculine” gifts.
Just as a feminine woman wants to be understood, so do men. They want to feel “alive” in his masculine essence. A modern day woman appreciates her man. She ignites his presence as he does hers and you don’t hear her sitting around asking, “Where are all the good men?”
Often, a woman will step into a masculine role because the man does not take charge. For example, if the man does not make strong decisions, the woman will step in and make the decision in order to get things moving.
A modern day woman does not want to be the more controlling one in a relationship and knows that doing so can cause disharmony. She knows her man will not feel like he needs to be in his masculine essence if she is taking on a masculine role. He will not feel the need to step up, take charge, and treat her as the beautiful queen she is…
A suggestion is to let him know how much you trust him and his decisions. Every day, tell your man one specific way that you trust him, and watch his masculine side grow. Watch the expansive cycle of growth and energy of love increase between the two of you.
Mistake # 3 – She does not realize that a man wants a woman who inspires him.
We’ve heard it said time and time again: “Men are only after one thing.” But is this true? It’s true that men put a woman’s sexual attractiveness high on their list of priorities, and that they are biologically programmed more than women to be driven by sex. But at a deeper level, what a man really wants from his woman is to be inspired “out of his head.”
Most men live in their heads much of the day which is often why the feminine is so captivating and relaxing to them. They have a deep inner need to let go of their incessant mental activity. Sex satisfies this need very well, although there are other ways a woman can offer this gift too. A modern day woman knows how to express how she feels more often than speaking intellectually.
She also stays in her feminine with him with the way she talks, moves and relates to him. She is fun, easy to be with and can invite a man let and it it’s ok to get “out of his head” Rather than keep him stuck there all the time..
Mistake #4 – She thinks, “I don’t need a man”
If a man does not perceive that he can be of service to a woman, he won’t be attracted to her. This does not mean you must play the damsel in distress, or be a nag, or be “needy.” He wants to serve you and to make you happy.
As a modern day woman you can lift up your man and allow him the opportunity to open doors for you, yet don’t make a big deal about whether he does or not. Let him carry your bags—again, not making a big deal of it.
Let him find something to do for the evening, after telling him you want to do something fun together. If you feel emotional, share that. Let him hold you or just listen to you. Feel free to ask nicely for exactly what you want. Be open to “needing” a man. Stop playing the role of Super-Woman and insisting on doing everything yourself, even if you can. What if the greatest sign of strength were to let go of control and allow someone else to help you? Be open to receive his love.
Mistake #5 – She does not deliberately create sexual polarity.
A crucial relationship skill is to deliberately create sexual polarity by connecting to your feminine essence—at appropriate times. There may be times in the day when you do not feel very connected to your feminine side and may not need to be, such as when you pay bills or at work.
On the other hand, there may be other times of the day when you really want to connect to your feminine essence, such as when you lie in bed with your lover, while on a romantic stroll, or after a tough day of work.
The most important times to connect to your feminine genius are: when you are getting ready to go on a date, when you and your lover spend quality time together, when you are transitioning from your work day to your evening, when you first get up in the morning and just before you go to bed at night.
By avoid making these 5 key mistakes you will not only be treated like a goddess but you inspire men to raise up their frequency in honor of you and in honor of their own god-like self that he is meant too.
Here’s to love,
Teresa Salhi – Feminine Genius & Relationship Coach
Supporting woman to reach their desired life and business with confidence, clarity and commitment.
P.S. Are your ready to meet your soulmate and create the polarity with your man that creates long lasting love? It really can happen, even if you’ve failed at relationships in the past or don’t think you the kind of woman a man wants. It all has to do with your feminine genius alignment. I will help you create a feminine genius love map that leads you to you. Let me share this process with you so you can finally be with your forever man. Book a call with me – Go here.
