Relationships, they come and they go. It’s like an ebb and flow of souls interacting on a physical journey. It’s supposed to be that way, I guess. It may not always feel ok at first – but eventually it is. Who said they are meant to be in our life forever, anyway? We’ve all heard someone say that real friends are forever or marriages must be from now til the end of time. I’ve come to believe that is not necessarily true nor is it false. It just is and that’s ok…
In relationships we tend to change. We grow, evolve, expand our consciousness, our beliefs, perceptions, ideas, dreams and what we like or don’t like and even change our vocabulary. These are all good things to experience even if it doesn’t feel that way at the time. To be the same person, exactly the same person, forever would be detrimental to engaging with all that life and love has to offer.
The Law of Attraction is about receiving in the outer world a mirror of what we are feeling on the inside. This means everything that shows up in our life is somehow related to what our dominate thoughts and feelings are within us. If there is any doubt how you feel about something – just look around and notice what you are experiencing in your physical life right now.
It works the same with relationships. We attracted them to us – we were in a energetic harmony of common feelings and thoughts related to things like our syle, beliefs, personality, desires, demeanor, confidence, etc.. It doesn’t mean we are exaclty alike – in fact you might think that person was your exact opposite! So what’s that all about? Yes, we often see opposite type people together. That’s because there is still an energy of commoness. Think of it as a giving attention to something in common.
She gives attention to being neat and tidy ….and abhors messiness. He’s a messy kinda guy, lives from this space and may notice or think about it often but is pretty much ok with it. See the commonality of messiness? Hmmm….
This is also way relationships end….
All of our experiences change us little by little – not just relationships. We changed, they changed due to our experiences and we end up dancing to different music. We changed directions with our ideas, beliefs or desires. We got too far out of sync with each other.
Oftentimes, friends will dissipate from our life and we wonder why. This is often the reason. It can be hard to lose a friend or understand what happened, where did they go? Initially, we may not be conscious of what is happening. We might take it personal or be angry and blameful…..
It can be even harder to see the bigger picture when it comes to romantic relationships. Oh, so very hard at times – maybe that’s a version of denial. However, we either can take ahold of this together and consciously work to bring back our magnetic alignment – or, oftentimes, it’s too late or better to let it go. Especially, if we feel like the relationship is holding us back from the growth of our experiences.
Yes, relationships come and go.
This evolving of people in our life can be a very important part of our journey – that’s what I believe anyway. I have learned so much from past relationships and especially the ones that took me years to let go of. Deeply felt romantic ones and bestest of the best friendships have gone awry. I no longer hold any ill feelings, in fact, I am grateful to see the glory from these experiences and as my stepping stones into a better person. I glean from what was shown and offend and keep a piece of the memory as part of my every evolving self.
Dream big darling….