Stop Not Being Me. What does that really mean, anyway? If you are a woman in today’s world, you have a life full of living, having, wanting, doing, loving, missing, celebrating and likely even failing.
It’s ok and we must never ever beat ourselves up for a life that’s not yet to our heart’s content. We are here to grow and experience it all babe and that includes the grisly stuff that may be going down right now. So let’s see what self awareness we can lean into right now.
The path to stop not being you is not the path of more doing. It’s contrary to what we’ve heard, witnessed or felt. This right now is my reminder to myself and to you, my dear sister. The path to stop not being me….is the most rewarding, chaotic, grueling, soul drenching love, self awareness and power to change what another has programmed us to be.
Which in truth, has come with our agreement too and that is what the pain and confusion is feeding upon.
It’s in those innocent times of trying to fit in, begging to be loved, wanting to be beautiful, to have confidence, to be heard and valued. To know the difference of being seen for beauty, for desire and being seen for an object of inspiration while making a difference in the lives we touch.
If you are in a place where you’ve been doing your inner work for a long time. You’ve triumphed and overcame embarrassing mistakes, forgiven, learned some hard lessons, felt powerful emotions during a dark night of the soul, pulled yourself through with tough love of a divine intervention, joyfully embraced moments of profound personal fulfillment and allowed love into the depths of eternity…. if any of that is you and yet…
And yet, there’s still this thing.
An empty feeling inside as if something is still missing. As if, you don’t know if you are making it up, or just not being grateful or as if something is really missing and you are still playing it safe and still, not being you. UGH.
Starting and stopping.
Knowing and forgetting.
Just know this, I promise you can believe it, you are not crazy. You are actually more in tune with BEING YOU than most. You are on the cusp of your greatness.
Perhaps there are a few things that can help. A few questions to ask yourself, a few things to stop that are causing you to stop not being you.
This moment is to remind you to stop that thing instead!
To surrender to letting go. Surrender to you. You got it already. To shed the veil, to allow it to be easy. To release the old story. To give yourself the credit you deserve and to be the woman, the queen, the goddess of your life. To relish in the love you are and to receive it all.
Ask yourself my dear sister.
Ask yourself these questions that are necessary so you can truly “stop not being me!”
Do I need to or how can I….?
- Stop giving my power away?
- Stop allowing my boundaries to be broken?
- Stop lowering my own standards? (am I being authentic in alone times too?)
- Stop believing in their misguided perception of me when it is them they see?
- Stop lowering my voice and bowing my head?
- Stop wasting my time and allowing myself to be distracted?
- Stop not treating myself as a Queen? (health, spiritual, upleveled life practices)
- Stop forgetting I am blessed, loved and of divine value?
- Stop living in the past?
- Stop being fearful of my gifts and saying yes?
I recommend that you write down these questions and answer them. I mean, really dig deep and answer. Even if it doesn’t feel as if that question pertains to you, go a little deeper. Dive in for more awareness and be open to new discoveries.
To stop not being you is really to stop blocking you from shining your diving light unto the world. There’s never been a better time my dear sister, a time for us, me…you…to let go of the invisible walls that hold us back. There is no one coming to save us. We truthfully don’t even need saving. We just need to get on with our precious journey of this life and surrender to our perpetual light.
Feminine Genius Life and Love Coach
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