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The Good Lie

By Teresa Salhi 18 Comments

My husband and I watched the movie, The Good Lie last night. It is rare that my husband will watch this type of film with me.  He comes from Africa and it hurts his heart to see the hardships of his fellow brothers.  He was fortunate to be born in the more advanced Mediterranean country of Algeria but his ancestors are of tribal decent and he has witnessed and heard of the pain and suffering that's been a bigger part of his family history. 
 

We watched with emotion and feeling deep gratitude for our life.  

 

Reese Witherspoon is the most famous star in the movie, but the real scene-stealers were her cast mates.

 The drama, inspired by true events, recounts Sudan's (Africa) second civil war several years ago and the stories of a few of the thousands of children it orphaned and displaced, who became known as the "Lost Boys." One of the actors actually LIVED this event.  After watching the film, I discovered that there is a Lost Boys Foundation in the city where I live and one of the orignal boys is the founder and director.  This discovery thrilled us and we have since visited them and supported their mission.  My husband and I came together when I was traveling to Africa for a few reasons but one was to explore more how I may serve those in need.  We vowed to stay connected to the Afrcian culture and need even when he moved to US.  The Lost Boys Foundation is one way we are doing this.  Ok, let me get back to sharing more about the movie with you. 

 
The Good Lie follows four refugees who flee soldiers, watch their family die of hunger, being eaten by wild animals, dehydration, exhaustion and crossing rivers at gun fire.  Over a 4 years span of time they travel by foot nearly 1,000 miles to a refugee camp where they eventually relocate to the United States.  At that point they still face the struggle to reconcile with their sister and lost tragic past and arriving with the deepest feelings of love and gratitude.
 
I have to admit, tears filled my living room last as I watched their pain and their triumphs – there is much more than I can relay here now.  Thinking about it now even breaks open my heart again…

The Good Lie reminded me of 3 things

 
 
 
1. I was reminded to appreciate the United States a little bit more. Now I love our country for sure and decided to not only focus on what is not working like the food industry (which I do a lot)  but rather more on freedom and opportunity for all.  Also…
I've watched my husband, Riad, face disappointment time and time again due to the challenges a new person in our country faces – limitations initially to make a living or sense of belonging. However, Riad continued to remind me (despite the challenges) that the US is the best country in the world and partly due to the help that is provided for others to escape devastation just like with 'lost boys' and many other refugees. Yes, the movie reminded me of this too.
 
2. I was reminded of the depth of our human strength, even as children we can truly face most anything and can overcome extreme fear.  And in our heart we all sense a deeper knowing that it really is our right to pursue happiness.
 
3. I was reminded of why I am here and why I created Empower The Dream – to support the well-being of others so they are deeper fulfilled and are able to give more and can pay love forward,  I believe this is at the core of all of us. I will continue seeking awesome charity organizations – which now includes The Lost Boys Foundation.  As I mentioned,  one of the boys from the film  is now the Executive Director of this foundation and living right here in Phoenix AZ.
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Talk about inspiration and a reminder for when I get all cranky about not having enough of something. I love how the Universe really does give me what I need right when I need it.
 
During our everyday activities, holidays, while shopping, traveling or spending time with others – let's take time and remember our greatest gift – our gift of freedom and life.  And to give something truly priceless to another like safety, love and an enormous feeling of value for them for being here too.
 
 
Teresa Salhi
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About Teresa Salhi

Teresa Salhi is the founder of Empower The Dream with private coaching and programs for women in midlife.
Teresa is a certified coach, law of attraction trainer, corporate manager turned entrepreneur, and she also is the co-owner of a juice business.

Teresa believes in whole wellness. Mind. Body. Spirit.

Teresa specializes Life & Love Coaching for women who are over the hustle and heartbreak and ready for healing. To be confident with who they are, embrace their feminine power and create a lifestyle that aligns with their passion and purpose.

Teresa helps women to rise up in their personal and self belief, regardless of age and regardless of past. The belief that we all can uncover to realign to deepest talents and strengths, to be innovative, create opportunities, experience whole life wellness, joy and profound love.

Teresa shares her knowledge with local and global audiences. Her coaching is online and she hosts women's retreats and classes.

Teresa met her husband, Riad while on a trip to Africa in 2009.

Personally, she is an advocate for healthy, positive living, she is an accomplished marathon runner, raw food advocate, non-profit fundraiser, practices yoga, and meditation.

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  1. Katarina Andersson says

    August 25, 2016 at 1:35 pm

    Always good to be reminded that we have a lot and are lucky compared to so many others.

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  2. Jackie Harder says

    August 23, 2016 at 1:05 pm

    How wonderful to be reminded about all the great things and advantages we have here in this country. You’re right — we get so used to seeing (and focusing on) the things that aren’t are we wish they would be that we lose sight of what we do have. Especially those “little” things we take for granted — like clean water and shoes.

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  3. Joyce Hansen says

    August 22, 2016 at 4:21 pm

    We get so accustomed to the world’s tragedies, that we forget there is this incredible essence of humanity that survives to remind us never to forget. How wonderful that you and your husband are able to support The Lost Boys.

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  4. Karen Grosz says

    August 21, 2016 at 6:42 pm

    Yes, the resilience of the human spirit, whether it is those from Africa or those who survived the Holocaust, when tested, human beings are amazing what they can survive. Yes, we are so blessed to be living in the United States. Sometimes I am embarrassed about my USA “problems”. Thanks for the reminder to re-evaluate my contentment.

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  5. Joan Harrington says

    August 21, 2016 at 2:57 pm

    Thanks Teresa for sharing your thoughts on this inspirational movie 🙂 Yes, I am so very grateful that I live in the US, as well! Looks like a movie I need to watch soon! Appreciate the share!

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  6. Beverley Golden says

    August 19, 2016 at 11:31 am

    Although I haven’t seen this movie, I do know about The Lost Boys and did see a documentary about a small group of them. My sense is when you grow up without having all the luxuries we are afforded here in North America, your perspective is different. You are grateful for the things we take for granted. Especially things like running water, and heat and electricity and food. Freedom of course is very subjective too. Freedom has a different meaning for each of us. It’s wonderful when a film touches us so deeply and actually moves us to take action! I really love the lessons we took from the film, Teresa and that you took action to become involved with The Lost Boys local organization. Wonderful!

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  7. Roslyn Tanner Evans says

    August 19, 2016 at 8:37 am

    I learned so much from your piece and the comments of others and I recall seeing the movie & being so touched by it. Many of us come from immigrant parents & something they seem to have in common is they don’t talk about their struggles to get here. Oh to be blessed with an easier life, yes, but how important it is to understand & have compassion for those who have to struggle, sacrifice & fight for it.

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  8. Reba Linker says

    August 19, 2016 at 4:14 am

    It sounds like such a powerful movie. I love the lessons you draw from it, Theresa, and I appreciate your positive approach. We do have so much to be grateful for!

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  9. Kristen Wilson says

    August 18, 2016 at 7:53 pm

    I don’t recall ever seeing that one but have seen several where we are in another country and seeing how life is different in third world countries is interesting as I have never left the US. It’s humbling, ya know?

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    • Teresa Salhi says

      August 18, 2016 at 9:59 pm

      You have to add this one to your list of films – it is one of those that take you on an incredible journey and remind you have good most of us really have it.

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  10. Audrey Weidman says

    August 18, 2016 at 7:02 pm

    Teresa this is lovely. I have put The Good Lie on my movie watch list for sure! My parents are immigrants and for sure – it isn’t easy coming to a new country, but you can make a better life for yourself. Your story is a great reminder for ongoing gratitude for things that are so taken for granted – a home, water, food, security – all things we enjoy here in the US.

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    • Teresa Salhi says

      August 18, 2016 at 10:00 pm

      Yes so true, thank you Audrey and hope you enjoy the film as much as we did.

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  11. Christy Brennan Soukhamneut says

    August 18, 2016 at 4:30 pm

    I am crying with you. My husband is a political refugee. His story and those of his family amaze me. It takes such strength and courage to move to another country leaving everything behind. We have so much and take so many things for granted. How much more could we achieve if we focused on gratitude?

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    • Teresa Salhi says

      August 18, 2016 at 10:05 pm

      So you really understand the journey on a personal level too with your husband, Christy. We can really achieve and be so much more, we are all allowed the opportunity to expand our compassion and appreciation a little deeper and wider….what a difference it can make.

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  12. Sabrina M Quairoli says

    August 18, 2016 at 6:19 am

    Great inspirational post. I never saw this movie. I am with your husband, my parents came from poverty in Italy so seeing anyone struggle is really hard for me. But I do believe that being grateful for what we have here in the US will make us better citizens and better human beings.

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    • Teresa Salhi says

      August 18, 2016 at 10:06 pm

      Yes, for sure. I have learned so much thru my husband and learning about other cultures outside of my immediate awareness too.

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  13. Susan Mary Malone says

    August 17, 2016 at 4:06 pm

    What a moving story, Teresa–both of the film, and what you and your husband are doing. It really does help to put into perspective how wonderful our lives are, and the horrors that so many others face.
    I love your # 2:. I was reminded of the depth of our human strength. Yes.
    Thank you for this.

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    • Teresa Salhi says

      August 18, 2016 at 10:07 pm

      You are welcome Susan – thank you for your reflection – back it means a lot.

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