She wants this, do you? (survey answers)
There are 3 main reasons Women Stay Stuck in the Financial Struggle – women entrepreneurs and women who are consciously seeking a better life. There's also real solutions and a way out. I will share with you what I have found from working with many women and validated by as recent survey as the issues they are stuck and how I believe this can change for the better, immediately.
I know you have a deep passion to have and be more. I know it sometimes feels like this passion is drowning and slipping away. Maybe sometimes you just want to throw in the towel and give up?
Sometimes you do feel good and in a groove but why can’t you keep this momentum CONSISTENTLY or at least more often than not ?
Let me give you a little back story of where I am coming from and then I will give you the 3 top answers you need to create more consistency and getting unstuck. I want you to know understand from a personal level and my desire right now is to give you new found hope.
I remember a few years ago thinking my coaching business and the company I started Empower The Dream, just wasn’t meant to be. Thinking I wasn’t cut out for being a fearless coach and leader. Afterall, I was working really hard and truly believed I could do it. I invested in continual business training and didn’t expect to learn only by random freebie offers, I really invested as I knew that was what was energetically aligned with others investing in my programs. I also continued growing my spiritual knowledge and mindset work. I have immersed my self in my feminine mastery knowledge all along.
But I was still wasn’t quite making it …I was still struggling with consistency.
Here’s the deal, here’s what shifted for me. There is NO such thing as “meant to be”.
Not really. It is confused with “make it be”. I shifted my way of being.
It is who you are being inside and out. AND outside in. Yes, it must be both.
I’ve spend a lot of time sharing on the absolute importance of your inner being, your inner work, your mindset, etc. You gotta have it together here – well, at least always be working on this and growing yourself. This is what guides you in your outer actions.
However, it is easy to get overwhelmed in the outer so I want to break some of that down for you. A couple of things that will really help you course correct in your business and yes even in our life journey.
If you are reading this, you may have taken the survey I sent out a couple of weeks ago. Or maybe you didn’t but you are so freakin’ done with not having the answers that you are ready to learn them and get your practice today. I am rootin’ for you girlfriend!
You see, if you’re waiting for a sign – this is it!
Everyone and certainly every entrepreneur has her ups and downs with finances, struggles and being stuck—myself included! There will always be expenses you couldn’t anticipate and risks you took that just didn’t quite pay off. But if you’re finding that your income and your bank account balance is exactly where it was a few years ago or even six months ago, there’s likely to be a missing piece that’s stopping you from rising above the struggle.
It’s time to take a look at:
Who are you being?
What are you doing?
Are your words and behaviors in alignment?
As much reverence as I have for working from the inside out, sometimes if you want big results, you’ve got to work from the outside in and actually start doing things differently. If you’re ready to take action, shift your behavior and make your dreams real, then consider whether one of these top three scenarios I see happening with so many women might apply to you.
- Are you creating consistency?
Successful women have the same number of hours in the day as anyone else. They know to remain laser focused on what works and do not allow themselves to get distracted by seeing who is on Instagram or Facebook. They have their day planned intentionally and are not just randomly doing what shows up but actively planning and creating what will show up.
When you allow yourself to be distracted so easily and multi tasking 5 different thngs at once – you cannot stay focused on doing what works and doing it well. You don’t pull in the inspritioatn of how to continually serve the clients you have so they will keep coming back or create the wash and repeat system that works over and over again.
- Does it make sense?
I’m talking marketing here. The truth is we are always in marketing in some way whether we are in business or not. Let me address this today from an entrepreneur point of view.
What is your planned and perfectly aligned, sequential structure that leads people into your path of service in a way that is easy to follow, keeps them engaged, allows them to get to know you, love and experience you, and makes it a no – brainer to hire you?
You already know that you must have the right mindset to equal success but are you implementing the steps or just being random. And you also must have the right outer system that implements success and it must make sense to the people that you desire servicing. It must lead to you and you to them. It cannot be a random, sometimes, if I remember, if I feel like it, if I want to or not kinda thing. There must be a reason you do what you do and the reason leads them to the next step. It is not left open for you to assume they will get who you are, what you do and you assuming they will call if they want something. There is no room for assumptions. You are the leader, you must help them to understand and get out of your own way. Marketing is a system in life and in business. If you want results you have to be a consistent marketing that has focus on the end result in conscious awareness at al times.
- Who are you being?
The third reason I see so many women stay stuck or are not creating consistent forward motion in the business or life is about who they are being.
Are you confidently and consistently putting yourself out there? Putting yourself in the marketplace on a regular basis? Confidence on doing this may feel foreign at first but it can ONLY IMPROVE with who you are being – on the inside and on the outside.
You’ve got to dig in and find your uniqueness – a coach can help you do this if you are unsure and you’ve got to share it, own it and lead with it. It really isn’t that hard once you know and practice it. In fact, it makes things much easier. Knowing yourself and accepting yourself is the backbone of confidence. Others admire this and need this. There are so many clients who your uniqueness speaks too. But when you hide it, belittle it, or shame it – you do the same to those who need you. And that is not who you really are – you are a woman is here to make a difference.
If it feels you are not connecting with people – get clear on you message and be open to share it wider than before. The cool thing about this is – it is naturally authentic and allows you to be you, stop faking it and embrace youself so others can too.
Now ask youself? Who are you willing to be?
I have a system for you that creates the confident, consistent, structure needed from the inside out and the outside in.
I call it..
"How To Be Feminine, Confident AND Successful at Creating a Life Style & Business That Makes You Happy & Makes a Difference"
It’s a vip day intensive.
Or it can be shared wth you as a slower paced program for newer entreprenuers or those who are just starting on their path.
It’s for women who are serious about going to the next level and